February 28th, 2018 Week 9th Wednesday

Knowledge makes humble, ignorance makes proud.

博学使人谦逊，无知使人骄傲。

Humility is not equal with being passive, submissive or insecure, instead, humility means being confident and being competent.

Humble people always seek to self-actualize by helping themselves, and they are still self-efficacious.

They just don't feel the impetus to boast themselves but instead, let their actions speak for their ideals.

To be humble is not to think less of oneself, but to think of oneself less.

I always feel inferior to others, it seems I would never catch up with those front-runners and even be surpassed by those newcomers.

What should I do? How to save me out of my current predicament?

Can you help me figure out some effective ways to solve my problems?

When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.

爱你的人谈起你的方式是不一样的，你会觉得安全又舒服。

From Jess C. Scott.

When staying with those who love us, we always feel safe and comfortable.

And the feeling must be mutual, I mean, we should make sure that we can let those people feel safe and comfortable and being loved as well.

Take the relationship between men and women for example, if we want to make our lover feel comfortable and trust us, what we should we do?

First, bear in mind that we are the protector of them. If we failed to do this, they would be swamped with distress and pains, if they find it is difficult to get through each day and they can't stand such bad feelings any longer, they would leave and find someone else.

Second, don't ask a reaction. That means, as a man, we should be more decisive and resolute, such features would help us look more attractive and confident.

Third, be proud of the days we live together and always bring our compliments generously to them.

As for me, maybe the best way to make those who love me and trust me feel safe and comfortable is that I am able to offer them a wealthy life.