Have you ever known the theory of chocie? There are a bunch of axiems, but there are only two thing we really need to concern with. One, the only person's behaviors that we can control are our own. And two, the only thing that we can truly give other…

Every man is a poet when he is in love. 每个恋爱中的人都是诗人. It is said this saying was from Plato, the famous ancient philosopher. Notice that when you are dating with a girl, the romantic process may involve flowers, chocolate, sweet words and surprising g…

Much effort, much prosperity. 越努力,越幸运. I have ever seen this sentence in many people's signature of their social media applications, like WeChat, Tecent QQ, and so on. I ever thought that may be true, if you make much more efforts, you would be able…

The only thing more painful than learning from experience is not learning from experience. 比从经验中学习更为痛苦的事情就是没能从经验中学习. Learning from experience is painful, but the alternative of not learning is worse. Yes, it it easy to understand why not learning fro…

Had I not seen the sun, I could have borne the shade. 我本可以忍受黑暗,如果我不曾见过阳光. A poem by Emily Dickinson, and the full text follows: Had I not seen the sun I could have borne the shade But light a newer wilderness My wilderness had made Aha, if just readi…

We read the world wrong and say that it deceives us. 我们把世界看错了,反而说它欺骗了我们. It is not a cakewalk to see the world clearly and read it in the right way. Sometimes we didn't attain the things we expected, we might complain that the world deceived us. Why…

It is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things. 不做孤注一掷的事情是智慧的表现. We are told that we had better not to put all our eggs into one basket, that means, we must learn how to spread the risks so as to reduce the potential risks to the minimum…

Every light has darkness to balance it out. 有光明的地方,必定有黑暗予以平衡. I strive to get a balance between life and work. But it seems my efforts were just futile and I failed in both. I originally believed that although there were full of darkness in my life,…

Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of. 相爱不易,相忘更难. The past are hurt, but I think we can run from it or learn from it. If she turns her back on you, you also can turn your back on her. Please be barve when you have to be, for example, you…

Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines. 问题不是休止符,而是引向标. It is ture during our explorations we often have to face problems, difficulities and dangers, sometimes even the most perilous ones and seemingly insurmountable. If we give up, we may l…